Singles events in NYC for your 20s and 30s
179 events for singles in their 20s and 30s in New York City, updated November 8: mixers, speed dating, parties and activity meetups. Book on the organizer's site.
Upcoming events for 20s and 30s
— 179 foundShuffle Dating: Men & Women Ages 34–44
Luvvly Dating · 34–40
Luvvly Dating · 35–45
D8 Time @ The River (11/11 EDITION 😍)
Skip the Small Talk Night at Pianos
Brooklyn Speed Dating Events @ Radegast Hall · Williamsburg NYC (28–45)
Our Largest Singles Night Yet with Karaoke
Wednesday 11/11 - Volo Solo Karaoke Night Powered by Tinder - Hoboken Biergarten 8:30pm
Speed Dating for Singles Ages 30s & 40s
Tall Men Speed Dating NYC: Meet 5'11+ Singles · Women Seeking Tall Men
Thursday · The Rose · Bachata Y Salsa Night
Volo Solo: Skeeball Speed Dating! - Thursday 11/12 at Ace Bar (East Village) - Powered by Tinder!
Late 30s/40s Happy Hour, Midtown
Asian/Asian-American LOCK & KEY Singles 30s-40s — Better Than Speed Dating
LGBTQIA+ Skip the Small Talk Night at Bibliotheque
Matchbox 90s Singles Party · Dating Event for NYC Singles(Ages: 20s–30s)
Networking Night Out · For NYC Professionals (25+) · Social
Speed Dating Book Club
Speed Dating for Desi, Indian & South Asian Singles
Speed Dating for Long-Term & Marriage-Minded Singles
"Rescue Me" Singles Party: Mix and Mingle with NYC's Bravest Firefighters
Dating Games a Fun Twist on Speed Dating
Speed Dating New York · CitySwoon · 35–49 years · at Greenwood Park
Singles events for your 20s and 30s, all in one place
This page lists every upcoming NYC singles event whose age range overlaps 21 to 39: nights for 23-33, 25-35, 28-40 and the like, plus events with no stated range. Speed dating is the most common format, followed by mixers and happy hours, trivia and game nights, parties, and activity meetups such as pickleball, padel, run clubs and workshops.
Expect $15 to $40 for a ticket, paid to the organizer. Speed dating sells out by gender, so if a night is marked sold out for one side it is usually still open for the other. Many organizers also run LGBTQ+ and community-specific nights; use the audience filter.
Most events are in Manhattan (East Village, Midtown, Chelsea) and Brooklyn (Williamsburg, Greenpoint). Filter by neighborhood or date, then sign up directly with the host.
Singles events for 20s and 30s in NYC: common questions
What kinds of singles events are there for people in their 20s and 30s?
Speed dating by age bracket (for example 23-33 or 27-39), singles mixers and happy hours, themed parties, trivia and game nights, and activity-based meetups like pickleball, run clubs and cooking classes.
How do the age ranges work?
Each organizer sets a range for the night and checks it on the door. This page includes any event whose range overlaps 21 to 39, so a 28-40 night appears here as well as on the over-40 page's edge.
How much do events cost?
Typically $15 to $40. Some mixers and activity meetups are free or ask only for a drink minimum; the price on each event page comes from the organizer's listing.
Where are most of the events?
Manhattan neighborhoods such as the East Village, Midtown and Chelsea, and Brooklyn around Williamsburg and Greenpoint, with some in Queens, Jersey City and Hoboken.
Do I need to come with friends?
No. Most nights are built for solo arrivals: hosts introduce people, speed dating rotates you through the room, and mixers use prompts or games. Event pages note when a format is especially solo-friendly.













