LGBTQ+ singles events and speed dating in NYC
29 upcoming LGBTQ+ singles events in NYC, from 9 organizers: gay, sapphic and lesbian, bi and queer nights, speed dating included. Updated November 13. Out There does not sell tickets; you sign up on the organizer's site.
All upcoming LGBTQ+ singles events
— 29 foundCoffee Shop Speed Dating 40–55
Bisexual Speed Dating: NYC Queer Singles Events in Manhattan
Singles Happy Hour 40–55
Luvvly Dating · 45–60 · Queer Women
Luvvly Dating · 35–45 · Queer Women
Thanks + Giving (part 1: Thank You Cards)
Coffee Shop Speed Dating 30–45
Sunset Speed Dating 30–45
Luvvly Dating · 30–40 · Queer Women
LGBTQIA+ Skip the Small Talk Night at Threes Brewing Gowanus
Gay Speed Dating Event: NYC Gay Singles Events in Bushwick/Williamsburg
Sapphic Speed Dating Night at Good Judy · Queer Women Dating Event
Coffee Shop Speed Dating 22–30
Singles Travel Trivia Night 30–45
20s Skip the Small Talk Night at Bibliotheque
Skip the Small Talk Night at Threes Brewing Greenpoint
Gay Speed Dating Meets Wine Tasting · NYC Gay Singles (25–49)
Speed Dating for Queers - Sapphic
Gay Men's Speed Wine Tasting & Cheese Social NYC (25–49)
Speed Dating for Queers - Sapphic
Coffee Shop Speed Dating 40–55
Luvvly Dating · 30–40 · Queer Women
Book Crush: Sapphic Holiday Party Edition
Anti-Dating App Social (Friends & Lovers - New York) 21s-45s
Coffee Shop Speed Dating 30–45
20s Skip the Small Talk Night at Bibliotheque
Skip the Small Talk Night at Bibliotheque
LGBTQIA+ Skip the Small Talk Night at Bibliotheque
Gay singles events
— 3 foundGay Speed Dating Event: NYC Gay Singles Events in Bushwick/Williamsburg
Gay Speed Dating Meets Wine Tasting · NYC Gay Singles (25–49)
Gay Men's Speed Wine Tasting & Cheese Social NYC (25–49)
Sapphic and lesbian singles events
— 4 foundSapphic Speed Dating Night at Good Judy · Queer Women Dating Event
Speed Dating for Queers - Sapphic
Speed Dating for Queers - Sapphic
Book Crush: Sapphic Holiday Party Edition
Bi and queer singles events
— 12 foundLGBTQIA+ Skip the Small Talk Night at Bibliotheque
Bisexual Speed Dating: NYC Queer Singles Events in Manhattan
Luvvly Dating · 45–60 · Queer Women
Luvvly Dating · 35–45 · Queer Women
Luvvly Dating · 30–40 · Queer Women
LGBTQIA+ Skip the Small Talk Night at Threes Brewing Gowanus
Sapphic Speed Dating Night at Good Judy · Queer Women Dating Event
Speed Dating for Queers - Sapphic
Speed Dating for Queers - Sapphic
Luvvly Dating · 30–40 · Queer Women
Book Crush: Sapphic Holiday Party Edition
LGBTQIA+ Skip the Small Talk Night at Bibliotheque
Organizers with upcoming LGBTQ+ singles events
LGBTQ+ singles events in NYC, all in one place
This page lists every upcoming NYC singles event that organizers mark for LGBTQ+ guests, plus any event whose title or audience names gay, lesbian, sapphic, bi, queer, pansexual or LGBTQ singles, so a night is not missed when its tags are empty. Speed dating, mixers, parties and activity meetups are all included.
The sections below are slices of the same list: gay nights, sapphic and lesbian nights, and bi and broader queer nights, including mixed queer rooms. Each event page shows the date and start time in New York time, the neighborhood, the price and the age range, and links to the organizer's own signup page.
LGBTQ+ singles events in NYC: common questions
Are there gay speed dating events in NYC?
Yes. They are listed in the gay section when upcoming, with the host, age range and signup link.
Do you list sapphic or lesbian events?
Yes, when organizers publish them. If that section is empty, the page will say so.
Are mixed queer nights included?
Yes. Bi and broader queer nights appear in their own section and in the full list.

















