Manhattan30-49
Asian/Asian-American LOCK & KEY Singles 30s-40s — Better Than Speed Dating
Friday, November 13 at 7:00 PM
Bananas, East Village
From $30
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Singles parties and mixers in NYC
If you want a looser night than timed dates, this list hides speed dating and keeps parties, happy hours, mixers and socials. 51 upcoming singles events in NYC: 28 in Manhattan, 17 in Brooklyn, 4 in Queens, 1 in Hoboken and 1 in New York City. Updated November 13. Blind-date nights are included when they are not speed dating. For the structured format, see speed dating in NYC.
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Upcoming singles parties and mixers
— 51 foundManhattan20-39
Matchbox 90s Singles Party · Dating Event for NYC Singles(Ages: 20s–30s)
Friday, November 13 at 7:00 PM
Blind Barber, Alphabet City
From $28.26
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Manhattan25+
Networking Night Out · For NYC Professionals (25+) · Social
Friday, November 13 at 7:00 PM
Pod Times Square, Hell's Kitchen
From $23.96
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ManhattanAll ages
"Rescue Me" Singles Party: Mix and Mingle with NYC's Bravest Firefighters
Friday, November 13 at 8:00 PM
5th and Mad Lounge 2nd Level, Murray Hill
From $18.64
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QueensAll ages
Nov 14 Sat: Visit Snowbound Expo w Transport $55
Saturday, November 14 at 7:00 AM
Queens pickup: Northeast Corner of 39th Ave & College Point Blvd, Flushing
From $55
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BrooklynAll ages
Romance is Visually Impaired: A Live Blind Dating Show as Part of New York Comedy Festival 2026!
Saturday, November 14 at 5:00 PM
The Tiny Cupboard, Bushwick
$19.50
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Manhattan40-55
Singles Happy Hour 40–55
Saturday, November 14 at 7:00 PM
B Lounge NYC, East Village
$26.99
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Brooklyn25-45
Soso Club Presents: Brooklyn, Come Flirt
Sunday, November 15 at 2:00 PM
Foolproof NYC, Williamsburg
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BrooklynAll ages
Anti Dating App Night: An IRL Singles, Friends, and Games Mixer (free!)
Monday, November 16 at 6:00 PM
The Tiny Cupboard, Bushwick
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BrooklynAll ages
Brooklyn Nets X Someday
Wednesday, November 18 at 6:00 PM
Barclays Center, Prospect Heights
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ManhattanAll ages
Plus-One Party: NYC [admits 2]
Wednesday, November 18 at 7:00 PM
Bananas, East Village
$45 per pair (admits 2, plus-one required)
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BrooklynAll ages
Pitch & Pair
Wednesday, November 18 at 7:30 PM
Brooklyn Improv (The Main Room), Williamsburg
$31.56
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ManhattanAll ages
Thanks + Giving (part 1: Thank You Cards)
Thursday, November 19 at 6:30 PM
Fabrik NYC, Tribeca
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Manhattan25-55
The Feels Level 2 ed 7: a hand-matched IRL evening
Thursday, November 19 at 6:30 PM
Maison Projects, Chelsea
From $223.31
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Brooklyn25-40
Singles Arcade Night 25–40, November 19th - New York (Brooklyn)
Thursday, November 19 at 7:00 PM
Dave and Busters, Brooklyn
$19.99
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Manhattan27-35straight
Late 20s/30s Happy Hour, East Village
Thursday, November 19 at 7:30 PM
Waiting on a Friend, Alphabet City
$25.67
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BrooklynAll ages
Skip the small talk
Thursday, November 19 at 8:00 PM
$30.00 + fee
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ManhattanAll ages
Thursday · Singles Only Mixer · Bar Bas
Thursday, November 19 at 8:00 PM
Bar Bas, Hell's Kitchen
Manhattan25-38
What If We NYC Cuffing Season Kickoff
Thursday, November 19 at 8:00 PM
Little More, 111 Reade St, New York, NY 10013, Tribeca
$13
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ManhattanAll ages
Intelligent Singles Mixer at Beekman Hotel in NYC!
Friday, November 20 at 7:30 PM
Laissez Faire (Beekman Hotel), Financial District
From $49.87
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ManhattanAll ages
Thanks + Giving (part 2: Giving Back)
Saturday, November 21 at 9:00 AM
West Side Campaign Against Hunger - Food Distribution Center, Manhattan
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BrooklynAll ages
Anti Dating App Night: An IRL Singles, Friends, and Games Mixer (free!)
Monday, November 23 at 6:00 PM
The Tiny Cupboard, Bushwick
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BrooklynAll ages
Bookshop meet-cute New York - BODA singles social - Brooklyn
Monday, November 23 at 6:00 PM
Book Club Bar, Bushwick
£27.50
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BrooklynAll ages
Bookshop meet-cute New York - BODA singles social - Brooklyn
Monday, November 23 at 8:30 PM
Book Club Bar, Bushwick
£25 + fee
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ManhattanAll ages
Tuesday · The Singlesgiving · Spin NYC
Tuesday, November 24 at 7:00 PM
SPIN New York Flatiron, Manhattan
QueensAll ages
13th Annual Thanksgiving Killington $319 (2 Nights + Transport)
Friday, November 27 at 4:00 PM
Queens pickup: Northeast Corner of 39th Ave & College Point Blvd, Flushing
From $319
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BrooklynAll ages
Anti Dating App Night: An IRL Singles, Friends, and Games Mixer (free!)
Monday, November 30 at 6:00 PM
The Tiny Cupboard, Bushwick
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Hoboken21+
Jersey City Connects · Singles Party · Ugly Sweater Edition · Singles Mixer
Thursday, December 3 at 6:30 PM
The Shepherd & the Knucklehead of Hoboken, Hoboken
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Manhattan25-38
WhatIfWe Low Temps, High Potential
Thursday, December 3 at 7:30 PM
Unlisted Rooftop, Lower East Side
$15
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Manhattan30-45
Singles Travel Trivia Night 30–45
Saturday, December 5 at 7:00 PM
B Lounge NYC, East Village
$21.99
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ManhattanAll ages
Bookshop meet-cute New York - BODA singles social
Monday, December 7 at 6:00 PM
Book Club Bar, East Village
£27.50
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ManhattanAll ages
Bookshop meet-cute New York - BODA singles social
Monday, December 7 at 8:30 PM
Book Club Bar, East Village
£25 + fee
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Manhattan30-59
All-Asian Friends + Singles Holiday Mixer: Meet A New Friend or Date!
Thursday, December 10 at 7:00 PM
Hello Market, Two Bridges
From $49.87
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Manhattan25-49gay
Gay Men's Speed Wine Tasting & Cheese Social NYC (25–49)
Thursday, December 10 at 8:00 PM
Some Good Wine, Manhattan
From $55.88
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QueensAll ages
Dec 11–13 Sugarbush $329 (2 Nights + Transport) Depart Queens NYC NJ
Friday, December 11 at 4:00 PM
Queens pickup: Northeast Corner of 39th Ave & College Point Blvd, Flushing
From $329
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BrooklynAll agessapphicqueerlesbianbisexualpansexual
Book Crush: Sapphic Holiday Party Edition
Tuesday, December 15 at 8:00 PM
Book Club Bar, Bushwick
$22
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Manhattan25-55
The Feels NY ed 74: a mindful singles event in
Wednesday, December 16 at 6:30 PM
Maison Projects, Chelsea
From $112.65
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New York CityAll ages
Meet Me Under: Someday's Singles Party
Wednesday, December 16 at 7:30 PM
New York City
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Brooklyn21-45
Anti-Dating App Social (Friends & Lovers - New York) 21s-45s
Thursday, December 17 at 7:00 PM
Friends and Lovers, Crown Heights
£22.00
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Manhattan35-55
Matchbox 90s Singles Party · Dating Event for NYC Singles (Ages: 35–55)
Friday, December 18 at 7:00 PM
Blind Barber, Alphabet City
From $28.26
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Manhattan27-35straight
Late 20s/30s Ugly Holiday Sweater Happy Hour, Flatiron
Saturday, December 19 at 5:00 PM
SPIN New York Flatiron, Manhattan
From $20.09
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BrooklynAll ages
SINGLES CHRISTMAS PARTY - Bookshop meet-cute New York - BODA singles social - Brooklyn
Monday, December 21 at 6:00 PM
Book Club Bar, Bushwick
£27.50
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BrooklynAll ages
Bookshop meet-cute New York - BODA singles social - Brooklyn
Monday, December 21 at 8:30 PM
Book Club Bar, Bushwick
£25 + fee
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QueensAll ages
Sauna/Game Rm: Dec 24–27 Xmas Stowe $489 (3 Nights + Transport) QNS NYC NJ
Thursday, December 24 at 4:00 PM
Queens pickup: Northeast Corner of 39th Ave & College Point Blvd, Flushing
From $489
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ManhattanAll ages
Epic New Year's Eve 2027 Bash at Tavern 29: NYC's NYE Parties
Thursday, December 31 at 9:00 PM
Tavern 29, Rose Hill
From $28.26
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ManhattanAll ages
The Feels NY ed 75: a mindful singles event in
Wednesday, January 13 at 6:30 PM
Maison Projects, Chelsea
From $112.65
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ManhattanAll ages
Anchors Away: Fleet Week Party 2027 · Midtown NYC
Sunday, May 30 at 7:00 PM
The Addison (formerly The Dean) newly rennovated, Garment District
From $18.64
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Singles happy hours
— 3 foundManhattan40-55
Singles Happy Hour 40–55
Saturday, November 14 at 7:00 PM
B Lounge NYC, East Village
$26.99
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Manhattan27-35straight
Late 20s/30s Happy Hour, East Village
Thursday, November 19 at 7:30 PM
Waiting on a Friend, Alphabet City
$25.67
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Manhattan27-35straight
Late 20s/30s Ugly Holiday Sweater Happy Hour, Flatiron
Saturday, December 19 at 5:00 PM
SPIN New York Flatiron, Manhattan
From $20.09
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Singles parties
— 10 foundManhattan20-39
Matchbox 90s Singles Party · Dating Event for NYC Singles(Ages: 20s–30s)
Friday, November 13 at 7:00 PM
Blind Barber, Alphabet City
From $28.26
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ManhattanAll ages
"Rescue Me" Singles Party: Mix and Mingle with NYC's Bravest Firefighters
Friday, November 13 at 8:00 PM
5th and Mad Lounge 2nd Level, Murray Hill
From $18.64
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ManhattanAll ages
Plus-One Party: NYC [admits 2]
Wednesday, November 18 at 7:00 PM
Bananas, East Village
$45 per pair (admits 2, plus-one required)
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Hoboken21+
Jersey City Connects · Singles Party · Ugly Sweater Edition · Singles Mixer
Thursday, December 3 at 6:30 PM
The Shepherd & the Knucklehead of Hoboken, Hoboken
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BrooklynAll agessapphicqueerlesbianbisexualpansexual
Book Crush: Sapphic Holiday Party Edition
Tuesday, December 15 at 8:00 PM
Book Club Bar, Bushwick
$22
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New York CityAll ages
Meet Me Under: Someday's Singles Party
Wednesday, December 16 at 7:30 PM
New York City
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Manhattan35-55
Matchbox 90s Singles Party · Dating Event for NYC Singles (Ages: 35–55)
Friday, December 18 at 7:00 PM
Blind Barber, Alphabet City
From $28.26
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BrooklynAll ages
SINGLES CHRISTMAS PARTY - Bookshop meet-cute New York - BODA singles social - Brooklyn
Monday, December 21 at 6:00 PM
Book Club Bar, Bushwick
£27.50
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ManhattanAll ages
Epic New Year's Eve 2027 Bash at Tavern 29: NYC's NYE Parties
Thursday, December 31 at 9:00 PM
Tavern 29, Rose Hill
From $28.26
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ManhattanAll ages
Anchors Away: Fleet Week Party 2027 · Midtown NYC
Sunday, May 30 at 7:00 PM
The Addison (formerly The Dean) newly rennovated, Garment District
From $18.64
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Singles parties, happy hours and mixers in NYC
This page is every upcoming NYC singles event that is not speed dating: hosted mixers and happy hours, themed parties, socials, game and trivia nights, activity meetups and blind-date nights that skip the timed rotation. It uses the same "hide speed dating" filter as the main list, so nothing here is a separate catalog.
Mixers and parties are looser than speed dating: you arrive, get a name tag or a prompt, and talk to whoever you like. Each event page shows the date and start time in New York time, the neighborhood, the listed price and the age range, and links to the organizer's own signup page. Out There does not sell tickets.
Singles parties and mixers in NYC: common questions
Is this different from speed dating?
Yes. This page uses the site's "hide speed dating" filter. For timed-date nights, use the speed dating hub.
Do I need a ticket?
Most nights are ticketed through the organizer; a few are free. The card shows the listed price.
Are there singles mixers this weekend?
Open the tonight/weekend hub, or filter this list by date.